Confessions of A Classy Lady

So have you ever thought someone was pregnant and them totally turn out not to be? Well, one thing I have learned over the years (sometimes the hard way) is to NEVER ask a woman if she is pregnant. It could turn into a social disaster. For one thing, it can be very embarrassing for both you and the other lady. IT will make you look like a moron and feel like one too. I know because I have been both the moron (haha) and the victim in this type of situation. When I first got married in 2005, the ever so popular trend of tunic shirts and peasants-girl skirts were the latest fashion craze. Well, I was styling in my cute lil' outfit and this sweet lady came up to me in the store and said to me very politely "You know I wish I was as cute as you when I was pregnant"....I kind of stared at her in horror, I was completely dumbfounded! I mean, really? I was so speechless because she was giving me a really sweet compliment and stripping me of all self-confidence all at the very same time. LOL! I totally blame the outfit on this one! I always avoid those flowy tunic shirts now ;) Looking back on it now I can laugh but at the time, it really hurt my feelings. However, even though I know how this feels, I have unfortunately stuck my foot in my mouth on similar situations and both times when I thought the person was pregnant I was wrong. The first person I probably really offended, when it happened and I learned a huge lesson. The second and most recent time this happened, the person never really knew I had mistaken her to be preggers! (Thank GOD!) My advice is to keep your trap shut and don't assume someone is pregnant. You have to be careful with this especially in some cases more than others even. For instance,if a woman has just lost her baby asking them a question like that could be a simple honest mistake, but could do more damage other than to her self-esteem. It usually will come up in conversation if they are and if they want you to know personally, they will tell you!

Hope Everyone Has A Wonderful New Year!
Keepin it Classy in 2010 ;)

Okay, okay we all know that the holidays can get expensive and that some people just love to re-gift those presents that they smiled and said "Oooohh, just what I always wanted....another fruitcake!" Ahem, please keep last years fruitcakes to yourselves..... Anyway that's not the point; the point is that re-gifting is appropriate when done right!

Here are four simple ways to keeps yourselves from embarrassment this Christmas.
First off, make sure that the recipient of your re-gifted item was not the person who gave it to you in the first place! Can we say AWKWARD?!!! Next, try to make it personable by choosing the appropriate item to re-gift for the proper recipient. If you get a box of chocolates please do not re-gift it to your diabetic Grandmother! Thirdly, please at least re-wrap the gift and give it a new tag. How tacky would it be for the recipient to read the original tag that says, "To my honey bunny, from your snuggle bear!" Lastly, and most importantly, DO NOT tell them you re-gifted, some things are better kept to yourself :)

Well, that's my first etiquette lesson. SO what did you think? Please post your funniest re-gifting stories or tips on how to re-gift in the least tackiest way possible!

And Remember folks, Keep it Classy, Not Trashy!

Well, well, well, guess who finally decided to start a blog? Yes, with some recent disturbing trends in tackiness I have noticed these days, I have decided to start a manners and etiquette blog. First off let me say, I am by no means perfect, however, I do think it is appropriate that some people be educated on True Southern Hospitality. I have often been told I am too nice (yes, too nice!) which can be both good and bad IMO. I think that this site can be a fun way to help others and even myself realize when we have been tacky, rude or just plain inappropriate. This site is also meant to help offer tips for special occasions on the proper etiquette of throwing parties, planning events or just day-to-day manner emergencies. Some upcoming blogs will be on topics that occur in my everyday life such as my most recent Christmas Card fiasco and other topics that will include Obnoxious Gifts/Dirty Santa, Tackiest Christmas Decor, and Tipping Etiquette from both the Waitress and Customer's POV. Basically, I am offering my two cents whether you like it or not, thank you very much ;) At least I said thank you, LOL!

The blog is meant to be humorous and yet truthful, so please do not take offense to it.
I hope you enjoy what you read!